A woman is only vulnerable when her nail polish is drying, and even then she can still pull a trigger. - some great quote I heard somewhere once upon a time and that is very, very true (via a-thousand-words)
My therapist: Look at nature. Look at flowers. We never walk into our garden and say "Oh wouldn't that flower be so much more pretty if it were taller? Or red instead of pink?" No, we don't. Because nature was created perfect just as it is. And so are we. We are part of nature, we are how we're meant to be, we are perfect just as we are.